The longest relationship is the one I am in now. I have been with Bruce for 23 years now. He's an airline pilot. We fly on Higher Plane together all the time.

Well darling people out there. I see that quite a few of you have been with just yourself most of the time. I am so sorry for you. If there is anything I can do to help relieve you of the suffering that you must be going through by having to be alone with yourself all the time, just let me know what I can do. You must be miserable. I'm here for you.

George

Wow, what a sad weekend! Too many answers to the, "What's the longest relationship you've been in?" were, "myself".

My Darlings, I have to tell you in all sincerity that you are really making a grave mistake when you make relationships with other human beings something that you just don't do. You've gone too far with this and someone here needs to say something to you. Can't you see that with over 6 billion people on the planet, wanting to be alone is like trying to hide an elephant in the bushes?

What has happened is, you've become deluded. You have tricked yourself into thinking this way. When I snap my fingers you will wake up out of this self-deluded trance you are in. Snap!

Oooh I see, it didn't work. That's because you are still thinking negative fear thoughts about committed love relationships all the time. If you stop thinking negative fear thoughts about committed love relationships all the time, your mind will become clear again and you will be able to see that committed love relationships are OK. You will also see that being by yourself most of the time is not OK and that you actually don't like to be by yourself all the time. Just try being with people and quit thinking those negative thoughts for a little while and you'll see for yourself. I certainly wouldn't want you to believe me without discovering this for yourself.

I know that you may want to tell me that we are all related on some higher plane and we all get along wonderfully out there on that Great Plain somewhere in the sky. Well that's hogwash, is what that is. Hasn't anyone told you that being all about yourself is selfish, narcissistic and just plain bad?

No, they must not have told you. I'm sorry that no one told you this before. I know it's a bummer to get the bad news and feel all heartborken about the fact that your oh so very special exclusive love relationship with yourself is not working out and has to end now. Well, it does. My condolences.

George

Great hair and fabulous social skills! Compassion from the Divine. I've been blessed in this life, that I know for sure. The blessings just keep coming and coming. Sometimes I just have to pinch myself to make sure that it is all real.

The greatest blessing of all though is that this universe provides for all of us, even if we don't always notice it or recognize where it is coming from. And even though many of us are out of touch with the truth of our very dependency on the universe and higher powers, Divinity or God (you decide the name) to provide for us, we are still cared for anyway. The Divine is so compassionate that even though we sometimes push away help that is given, they keep giving it with compassion anyway. The compassion is so deep, too. I feel blessed to be able to recognize it and appreciate it.

It makes me sad that so many people feel independent and make the assumption that they don't need anything from anyone else and that they are perfectly fine without any "other." I don't agree with this at all, and I mean this from the human social level all the way through to God.

Thank you for letting me speak my heart.

George

That my hair is fabulous!

Darling People,

I notice around here that a lot of people say that we can agree to disagree. OUCH! That hurts my feelings to hear that. First off, how can you be in agreement if you disagree with someone? That just plain stupid! Come on and think a little. God gave us little brains, but they still work for heavens sake.

Why don't you just admit that you disagree? Do you think that maybe it's because you don't want to appear judgmental? Because if you take a stance on something, then you're putting your neck out there. People might not like what you have to say about their precious idea, especially if you disagree with it. So then they start calling you all kinds of things, like judgmental, reactive, and worse things in my last blog: http://gnoway-of-all.zaadz.com/blog/2007/11/whats_wrong_with_relationships#comments) but I'm better mannered than that.

So back to the idea that when you are afraid of other people, you won't take a stand on things because you don't want to appear judgmental and you don't want to judge other people. So this leads to my next brilliant point which is this:

Everyone cops out and says, "It's All Good" or "We Agree to Disagree". Yikes and heaven save our souls now because we need it. When we choose to descend to a state of mind so low in which we decide that our God-given faculty of discernment is no good and will probably just get us into trouble if we express it, then we've just lost our minds! Or you could say that we gave up the privilege of using our mind.

Either way you do it - you just decided NOT to decide. You went ahead and said to yourself, "self, my dear and oh so precsious self-of-all-that-I-am, I haven't thought about this much, but I've decided anyway that I don't want to have to choose between right and wrong anymore. I would rather be a leaf in the wind and let the tide take me if it will, but I don't want to have to make discernments. It's too hard to decide and life should be easy. So I've decided that from here out that 'it's all good'. So don't ask me, self, what I think anymore about good and bad or right and wrong, because you know what my answer is and if you don't agree with me, that's fine too, because we can just agree to disagree."

Ouch everyone! You are not treating each other like good human beings when you talk to each other or your self like that.

"Peace out" My Little Darling Ones,

George

Only losers are into working all by themselves. Did I say that? That was impolite. I meant to say that it's better to work with other people than by your poor, miserable self all alone.....

George